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When marketers take over parenting

Understanding children’s developmental stages is the foundation for marketing directed at kids.

Via Derek Baird, here’s a slide show created by Dan Pankraz, an Australian “youth planning specialist.” Keep in mind that I’m not picking on Mr. Pankraz in particular. This is just an example of how marketers go about trying to influence your children.

In summary, a marketer’s job is to:

– Help young children feel imaginative, clever, understood, connected, and valued;
– Help “tweens” feel self-confident and proud; and
– Help teens feel independent.

Excuse me, but isn’t that my job?

The lie in all this, the lie that can lead to family stress, depression and low self-esteem, is that children will not really feel understood, self-confident or independent by buying something.

This is exploitation for profit — pure and simple. And how youth marketers can continue to use kids’ developmental deficiencies to make money is beyond me.

Remember, kids are not little adults. They do not understand the intention of commercial messages the way we do.

Talk to your kids. Constantly. Because marketers do.

New resource for kids, parents and teachers: Admongo.gov, the FTC’s advertising literacy site

4 Responses to “When marketers take over parenting”

  1. teachermommy Says:

    “Talk to your kids. Constantly. Because marketers do.”

    That’s such a good line it should be on a bumper sticker!

    I love your blog and wanted to thank you for your insight and commentary. In addition, the link to admongo.gov looks like a good activity for me to do with my 7th grade literature class. I’ll play around with it and see.

    Good work!

  2. Lisa @ Corporate Babysitter Says:

    Thank you teachermommy! I had my second- and seventh-grade girls play with Admongo tonight and will be getting their feedback, too. Would love to hear how it works for your students.

  3. Guy Heikkinen Says:

    …aaand you’re on my RSS feed! I’m pleased to follow another person who’s concerned about marketer’s desires to corrupt the youth. I like your work! Please stop by sometime and drop a comment.

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